To forgive another person from the heart is an act of liberation. We set that person free from the negative bonds that exist between us. We say, “I no longer hold your offense against you” But there is more. We also free ourselves from the burden of being the “offended one.” As long as we do not forgive those who have wounded us, we carry them with us or, worse, pull them as a heavy load. The great temptation is to cling in anger to our enemies and then define ourselves as being offended and wounded by them. Forgiveness, therefore, liberates not only the other but also ourselves. It is the way to the freedom of the children of God.
emphasis mine
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January 26, 2012 at 4:37 pm
ncprism
I’ve loved the posts about forgiveness. I learned this lesson in my late twenties and early thirties. Forgiveness lets us be in charge of our lives, rather than relinquishing it to the people we perceive as having harmed us. It isn’t, in fact, necessary for them to acknowledge what they did. You can forgive them so that you are, yourself, free.