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	<title>Comments on: Maybe That&#8217;s Why We&#8217;re So Confusing</title>
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		<title>By: judyrose</title>
		<link>http://helenl.wordpress.com/2008/02/08/maybe-thats-why-were-so-confusing/#comment-50744</link>
		<dc:creator>judyrose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2008 20:31:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know what you mean. I&#039;m very careful before I push the &quot;submit&quot; button to read and re-read what I&#039;ve written. I like to be confident that it really says what I want to say, and that it doesn&#039;t contain any mistakes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know what you mean. I&#8217;m very careful before I push the &#8220;submit&#8221; button to read and re-read what I&#8217;ve written. I like to be confident that it really says what I want to say, and that it doesn&#8217;t contain any mistakes.</p>
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		<title>By: helenl</title>
		<link>http://helenl.wordpress.com/2008/02/08/maybe-thats-why-were-so-confusing/#comment-50728</link>
		<dc:creator>helenl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Feb 2008 05:24:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And maybe a part me says,  &quot;You know, you can edit at any time on your blog.  You can fix an error.&quot;  An error in a comment on Bookworm&#039;s blog lives in cyberspace forever.  How I hate that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And maybe a part me says,  &#8220;You know, you can edit at any time on your blog.  You can fix an error.&#8221;  An error in a comment on Bookworm&#8217;s blog lives in cyberspace forever.  How I hate that.</p>
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		<title>By: helenl</title>
		<link>http://helenl.wordpress.com/2008/02/08/maybe-thats-why-were-so-confusing/#comment-50725</link>
		<dc:creator>helenl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Feb 2008 00:08:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;re welcome, Judy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re welcome, Judy.</p>
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		<title>By: judyrose</title>
		<link>http://helenl.wordpress.com/2008/02/08/maybe-thats-why-were-so-confusing/#comment-50724</link>
		<dc:creator>judyrose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Feb 2008 23:55:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you Helen. I look forward to hearing what you have to say.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Helen. I look forward to hearing what you have to say.</p>
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		<title>By: helenl</title>
		<link>http://helenl.wordpress.com/2008/02/08/maybe-thats-why-were-so-confusing/#comment-50722</link>
		<dc:creator>helenl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Feb 2008 23:38:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Judy,  Thanks for coming to my blog and posing the questions here.  I will post answers on this blog by Tuesday.  This is the most insanely busy month of my life.  That&#039;s hyperbole.  :-)  Please check back and feel free to comment often.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Judy,  Thanks for coming to my blog and posing the questions here.  I will post answers on this blog by Tuesday.  This is the most insanely busy month of my life.  That&#8217;s hyperbole.  <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />   Please check back and feel free to comment often.</p>
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		<title>By: judyrose</title>
		<link>http://helenl.wordpress.com/2008/02/08/maybe-thats-why-were-so-confusing/#comment-50721</link>
		<dc:creator>judyrose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Feb 2008 23:32:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Helen, 
I think you may be talking about the discussion between the two of us over at Bookworm&#039;s blog. I wasn&#039;t looking for &quot;fool-proof&quot; and I wasn&#039;t looking for perfection. Michael Crichton (an author whose work I like) is talking about writing books for publication - books that people have to pay for. It&#039;s not what we&#039;re doing here on these blogs and it&#039;s not an apt analogy. If fool-proof statements were required in conversation, nobody would ever say a word. 

My point was (and still is) this: you are clearly a very articulate person and a good writer. You hold certain values and opinions which you have shared. I think it is reasonable to believe that you have given much thought the formation of those values and opinions. I assumed they are based on a foundation of core principles. Because I disagree with you so profoundly, I was trying to get down to some core principles with what I though were basic questions. I was surprised that you were not ready to answer at that moment, and have not yet answered. I understand the desire to organize your ideas so that you can explain them clearly. And you certainly have the right not to answer questions that are put to you. However you joined the blog discussion voluntarily, so I am under the impression you like to discuss these things. 

Here I am over at your blog as you requested. I&#039;d still like to hear your answers, and although I expect we&#039;ll disagree, I will respect you enough not to try to win you over to my side. 

For reference, the questions were these: Do you believe in the concept of self defense? Do you believe it is moral to hold your own life in higher regard than the life of your attacker? Do you believe you have a moral right to defend and protect your children from a violent attack, even if it means you have no choice but to kill the attacker? I understand you would always rather find an alternative to violence, but do you think it is ever justified?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Helen,<br />
I think you may be talking about the discussion between the two of us over at Bookworm&#8217;s blog. I wasn&#8217;t looking for &#8220;fool-proof&#8221; and I wasn&#8217;t looking for perfection. Michael Crichton (an author whose work I like) is talking about writing books for publication &#8211; books that people have to pay for. It&#8217;s not what we&#8217;re doing here on these blogs and it&#8217;s not an apt analogy. If fool-proof statements were required in conversation, nobody would ever say a word. </p>
<p>My point was (and still is) this: you are clearly a very articulate person and a good writer. You hold certain values and opinions which you have shared. I think it is reasonable to believe that you have given much thought the formation of those values and opinions. I assumed they are based on a foundation of core principles. Because I disagree with you so profoundly, I was trying to get down to some core principles with what I though were basic questions. I was surprised that you were not ready to answer at that moment, and have not yet answered. I understand the desire to organize your ideas so that you can explain them clearly. And you certainly have the right not to answer questions that are put to you. However you joined the blog discussion voluntarily, so I am under the impression you like to discuss these things. </p>
<p>Here I am over at your blog as you requested. I&#8217;d still like to hear your answers, and although I expect we&#8217;ll disagree, I will respect you enough not to try to win you over to my side. </p>
<p>For reference, the questions were these: Do you believe in the concept of self defense? Do you believe it is moral to hold your own life in higher regard than the life of your attacker? Do you believe you have a moral right to defend and protect your children from a violent attack, even if it means you have no choice but to kill the attacker? I understand you would always rather find an alternative to violence, but do you think it is ever justified?</p>
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		<title>By: helenl</title>
		<link>http://helenl.wordpress.com/2008/02/08/maybe-thats-why-were-so-confusing/#comment-50720</link>
		<dc:creator>helenl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Feb 2008 18:20:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, Karen.  There is more to each of us than meets the eye.  Some of our greatest friends may have made a bad first impression.  May we all look to learn.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Karen.  There is more to each of us than meets the eye.  Some of our greatest friends may have made a bad first impression.  May we all look to learn.</p>
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		<title>By: Karen Hopper</title>
		<link>http://helenl.wordpress.com/2008/02/08/maybe-thats-why-were-so-confusing/#comment-50719</link>
		<dc:creator>Karen Hopper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Feb 2008 18:04:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ah, the world of blogging. Each person perceives words in a different light. I appreciate individuality, even if at times it is confusing. How often have I had trouble saying what I really meant. It does sometimes take time to explain, although some people quit &quot;hearing&quot; after the first posting. Great thought Helen.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ah, the world of blogging. Each person perceives words in a different light. I appreciate individuality, even if at times it is confusing. How often have I had trouble saying what I really meant. It does sometimes take time to explain, although some people quit &#8220;hearing&#8221; after the first posting. Great thought Helen.</p>
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		<title>By: helenl</title>
		<link>http://helenl.wordpress.com/2008/02/08/maybe-thats-why-were-so-confusing/#comment-50713</link>
		<dc:creator>helenl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Feb 2008 15:27:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lou,  Glad you&#039;re getting more traffic.  Your blog is so great.  Maybe I&#039;ll feature you here and try to send some folks your way.  But I promise it won&#039;t be in February.  I am crazy-busy right now.

Thanks for the ping-back, Sherry.

BTW, Lou and Sherry, I don&#039;t know how to do the new referrals or ping-backs.  With a few tools, I&#039;d be real dangerous.  I&#039;m a blabber-mouth as is.  :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lou,  Glad you&#8217;re getting more traffic.  Your blog is so great.  Maybe I&#8217;ll feature you here and try to send some folks your way.  But I promise it won&#8217;t be in February.  I am crazy-busy right now.</p>
<p>Thanks for the ping-back, Sherry.</p>
<p>BTW, Lou and Sherry, I don&#8217;t know how to do the new referrals or ping-backs.  With a few tools, I&#8217;d be real dangerous.  I&#8217;m a blabber-mouth as is.  <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Sherry Chandler</title>
		<link>http://helenl.wordpress.com/2008/02/08/maybe-thats-why-were-so-confusing/#comment-50712</link>
		<dc:creator>Sherry Chandler</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Feb 2008 14:06:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] thought is nicely echoed by Helen Losse&#8217;s speculations of why we&#8217;re so confusing: Recently I refused, at least temporarily, to answer some questions on someone else’s blog. The [...]</description>
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